Thanks for sharing this article. I can relate to some of the author's experiences however, it's the comments that I find most interesting. The concept of motherhood and how it's linked to womanhood is so complex.
so interesting, thank you for posting. I can totally relate- I find it easier to talk to the men when we are all out in groups as they can talk about things aside from their children. thx for posting it love
It's really a strange feeling, feeling so left out of a major part of peoples' lives, just not being able to share an anecdote or commiserate. It chips away at my feelings of community sometimes, even in professional settings.
Extremely interesting. I am a new mum and it *is* overwhelming and i've made lots of new friends. But I sincerely hope that I don't lose sight of the old ones. I think that I think that once I go back to work and have to think about things other than J, I'll go back into 'the real world'. I'm living in a bubble right now, but at least I'm aware of that iykwim? I think my life will be the poorer if I stay in that bubble forever.
And I am still interested in the lives of my friends who don't have kids. I might struggle to remember the details at the mo, because I'm tired. But it'll come back.
I think it'll probably be a while before I can do trips to meet people again without the babba. But I'll be sad if I never meet you in person again. xx
Great article, and very true -- especially in group situations. Even people that I KNOW can talk about something else besides their kids (because they do it when I am with them one on one or in a smaller group situation) tend to get caught up in the majority when there's a big gathering.
I find I am often more BORED in these situations than anything else. :p
Thanks for sharing this article. I can relate to some of the author's experiences however, it's the comments that I find most interesting. The concept of motherhood and how it's linked to womanhood is so complex.
ReplyDeleteso interesting, thank you for posting. I can totally relate- I find it easier to talk to the men when we are all out in groups as they can talk about things aside from their children.
ReplyDeletethx for posting it love
It's really a strange feeling, feeling so left out of a major part of peoples' lives, just not being able to share an anecdote or commiserate. It chips away at my feelings of community sometimes, even in professional settings.
ReplyDeleteExtremely interesting.
ReplyDeleteI am a new mum and it *is* overwhelming and i've made lots of new friends. But I sincerely hope that I don't lose sight of the old ones. I think that I think that once I go back to work and have to think about things other than J, I'll go back into 'the real world'. I'm living in a bubble right now, but at least I'm aware of that iykwim? I think my life will be the poorer if I stay in that bubble forever.
And I am still interested in the lives of my friends who don't have kids. I might struggle to remember the details at the mo, because I'm tired. But it'll come back.
I think it'll probably be a while before I can do trips to meet people again without the babba. But I'll be sad if I never meet you in person again.
xx
Great article, and very true -- especially in group situations. Even people that I KNOW can talk about something else besides their kids (because they do it when I am with them one on one or in a smaller group situation) tend to get caught up in the majority when there's a big gathering.
ReplyDeleteI find I am often more BORED in these situations than anything else. :p
Late to the game, but LOVED the article. Had to even share it on my FB page. Thanks for sharing it.
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