Wednesday, 5 February 2014

five

Tomorrow (Thur 6th Feb) will be five years since I lost my daughter Tilly.  It's been five years so, naturally, no-one else remembers.  Not my parents, not my friends and I am sure not even A.

There's no-one else I can tell, no-one else who will tell me that it is okay to still grieve except you who read this because you have also gone through similar.

I am very sad tonight.
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14 comments:

  1. Anonymous5 February 2014 at 21:59

    I am so sorry to hear about no one else remembering. This is hard. I wish you all the best and lot of strength!

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  2. Fran6 February 2014 at 11:32

    I'm so sorry. Be kind to yourself, I'm sending love and positive thoughts, fran

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  3. Jen6 February 2014 at 13:47

    I am so so sorry and know that we will always be here and understand the grief. Sending you big hugs!

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  4. The Barreness6 February 2014 at 18:07

    Sending gentle hugs.
    You will always remember, grieve and remember as long as you need.

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  5. tireegal686 February 2014 at 20:55

    Sending so much love to you as you remember and mourn sweet Tilly. We will always be with you and remembering even if no one IRL does. PS did you try mentioning it to your parents or is it too painful to have them not notice?

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  6. Paige7 February 2014 at 00:49

    Missing her with you, Mama. xo

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  7. Brave IVF Mama7 February 2014 at 03:48

    *hugs*

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  8. Amel7 February 2014 at 08:07

    HUGE HUGS to you! I'm SO sorry for your loss. Tilly is a beautiful name. I'm sure she's very happy to be remembered by you and she loves you very much. Grieve on, my friend. She's been so much loved by you, so it's only natural that you're still feeling so sad. Take your time...

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  9. Amel7 February 2014 at 08:18

    I wonder where you live...I'm in a hurry so don't have time to search through your posts to find it, but if you live near London, maybe this would be a good opportunity for you?

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  10. Mali10 February 2014 at 21:42

    I'm sorry I'm late to this. But I'm glad that you felt you could remember Tilly here, with us all. I hope that the pain passes a little more quickly this year.

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  11. Rach11 February 2014 at 13:50

    I'm also sorry I'm late to this my sweet friend. Those anniversaries, the ones we remember, that most seem to forget, are the hardest I find.

    We will always remember right along with you because it's what we do, remember together xo

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  12. Mina14 February 2014 at 14:07

    I am so sorry there is such an awful date to remember in your life. Hugs. You are missed, Tilly. So loved and missed.

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  13. loribeth16 February 2014 at 02:39

    Sorry to be late... you are in my thoughts! I hope the day was good to you. ((((hugs))))

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  14. inBetween18 February 2014 at 05:22

    sending love and thoughts your way.

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